Trying to convince a “tween”

My daughter is 12, but quick to remind me that she’s just a few days away from turning 13. From the day she came into this world she has been a little on the petite side. When she was born, she was so short that we actually had to purchase a couple of preemie outfits so that she had something to wear that wasn’t falling off her tiny frame. Other than having a case of double pneumonia at the age of 4, she has been the picture of health. She’s out going, active and participates in several differ