10 Steps to End an Affair

10 Steps to End an Affair Given that I've been discussing my article "9 Ways to Affair Proof Your Marriage" on radio shows this week, I have been reading with interest the comments on the Group Beyond Blue discussion thread, "Ending an Affair," at Beliefnet Community, started by Group Beyond Blue member SalT. She wrote: How do you do it??!!!!! Picture this whole scenario and let me know how to do it … because I've failed and failed.. and will fail again. Married guy… two kids.. crazy wife.